I, we, she/he, they are subjective pronouns, the DOers.
me, us, you, her/him/it, them are the objective pronouns, the DOeesYES: me, us, you, her/him/it, them
Because “between” is a preposition, it must be followed by the object (DOee) pronouns.
NO: I, we, she/he, they
Use any combinations of the YES pronouns after “between”.
Two more notes — 1) When there are more than two pronouns (objectives), use “among”.
2) Be courteous. Put the other pronoun first and, modestly, use the “me/us” last.
CORRECT (hurray-whee):
Let’s keep this between you and me.
The competition is between her and me.
The promise between him or her is to accomplish the work.
INCORRECT (boo-hiss):
Let’s keep this between me and you. (you and me)
The competition is between him, her, and you. (Use “among”)
The promise between you and she is to work together. (you and her)
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